Lemon Bay Evening

Lemon Bay Evening
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Sunday, July 31, 2011

Halley and Me


My grand daughter, Halley, and I took each other on an adventure in the winter of 2011. We agreed the weather was going to keep us from going on these adventures in reality, but it couldn't keep us from going by imagination, and communication. The following two adventures were traded in one day, January 23, 2011. Notice how we both were of the outdoor persuasion? it may have been cold outside, but we both still wanted to be out in the winter weather anyway. Halley lives in the Pittsburgh area, with her Dad, Mom and brother, and Bo and I are in north central Arkansas.

Me and Ehmys adventure

Today Ehmy and I got up and got dressed, brushed our teeth, and ate breakfast. Then we got into the truck and went somewhere cold and snowy and fun! Its Seven springs mountain resort, theres snowboarding, snow tubing, and theres a hotel plus in the lodge my favorite restraunt is the buffet.Yummm!! Finally were there, we got tickets to the snowboarding, skiing, and tubbing. First were going tubing, theirs a big hill and a small hill, and the big hill has four sections and the small hill has six sections. Then we went snowboarding, and had an awesome time. They have a small hill (which is called the bunny hill). The big hill is for the professionals. After that we went skiing I fell a couple of times and so did Ehmy but after a while we got used to it.

Finally it was time for dinner, we went to the buffet and had wonderful food, such as steak, salad, spaghetti ,and a lot more.For dessert I had cheesecake ,ice cream, blackberry cobbler. Ehmy had a chocolate cake and ice cream with sprinkles. Then we went home and went to bed. That’s what we did that day. J


The White Doe

Today is our day… just Me and Halley. For a January 23rd, the weather is pretty mild. Upper 40’s for the high, with cloud cover to keep it from getting colder than that. The ground still has a bit of snow from last Thursday, but just enough for the evidence of presence. That would be the secret to seeing her.

We jump into the Expedition, and head off south of Melbourne on Hwy 69. We both have our hiking boots on with warm sox, warm pants, gloves, a scarf, and me with my down coat and Halley with her Camo jacket, and orange vest. Even though we will be on private property, it is still bow season here in the north central Arkansas Ozarks, and we don’t want to take any chances. My down coat is bright yellow, but we’ll stop at D&L, the discount “everything” store at the edge of town and get my orange vest too.

It’s a very good chance we will be driving back to the house after dark, and we just ate a BIG lunch, but we need a little heat for the adventure, so we carry along two thermos’ full of Hot Chocolate… mine has a splash of mint flavor… m-m-m-m-m-m!

After getting my vest, we climb back into the truck and head a bit farther south. Halley wants to know more about the adventure, and asks, “Ehmy, have you ever SEEN this white doe, or only just heard about her?”

“Yep! Bo and I were telling someone about her one night as we drove them back to their house in the woods, here. Then we headed back out to the highway for home, and just as we got to this house,” I say stopping in front of a house on the dirt road, “there she was! She and about a dozen other deer, grazing in that front yard!”, and I point to where we saw her.

“Bo-bo turned the truck toward them, and we saw them all very clearly, and she looked right at us, and very casually, stopped eating and then they turned and trotted up that hill, into the trees.”

Now Halley gets a bit more excited, to know that I had really seen her, and it wasn’t just a local fable. We drive on to the “Y” in the road called Rose Trail, deeper into the woods. The winter bare trees allow us to see where the ice storm two years ago, had bent and broken so much of the woods. We travel about another mile to the entrance to our friends, Jeff and Laura’s log cabin home.

Halley sees the feeders in the yard on both sides of the drive, and says, “Ehmy! Look at the deer around that feeder! Two of them! And there is another standing by the trees at the edge of the yard!”

She watches with a smile, as they look at us as we drive slowly by them, and asks if these were some of the deer the White Doe hung out with.

“I don’t know, Sac. Jeff and Laura have seen her on their property a few times, but I don’t know which other deer she was with. If it is these deer, then we have a great chance of seeing her!”

I park behind the house, and we walk together to the pond in the back yard. It has a bit of ice over it, but nothing thick enough for people’s weight. We talk very quietly about the fish Jeff and Laura have stocked in their three ponds, and how Laura likes to make sure they are fed, even in the winter. A coyote howl in the distance, and I tell Halley how those critters have been quite a problem this year for the livestock, and small pets. A red tailed hawk circles in the upper winds above the pines, and we se a bright red cardinal eating from the bird feeders Jeff hung on the trees around the pond.

Then suddenly, and very quietly, she appears. Across the pond from where we stand, she steps out of the woods, bends her head down to drink, then just as quietly looks up at us, as if to say, “ See, Halley, I am real. And now you have seen something very special.” With almost no sound at all, she turns and walks slowly back into the woods.

Halley and I both just hold our breath while we look at her, and now begin to breathe again, and just look at each other. We don’t speak a word, stay there for just a few more minutes, then knowing we got what we came for, slip back into the truck and drive home.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Hope


The following is a poem by my granddaughter, Arrielle. This morning we discussed an incident which occurred yesterday, in her life, which ended in a discipline of short term suspension from an activity for all who were in some or any way involved. "I was in the wrong place, at the wrong time." These are her words to me regarding the event. "Are you okay with the discipline you received?", I asked her. Her response amazed me, in the maturity she revealed; "I understand that everyone who had any part in this, had to be treated equally. My greatest regret, is that I have disappointed Officer N, by my involvement, regardless of how much or little it was." Taking a deep breath to regain my composure, I asked one more question. "Have you told her how you feel this way?" Arrielle replied, "No, I haven't had the chance yet, but I plan on talking to her Monday."

Finishing our conversation with the idea of expressing feelings through writing, and this venue for posting, so we can learn from our own experiences expressed, I opened my email hours later to find this...


Hope

by Arrielle Smith

Lightning Strikes When Least Expected

Nothing Can Prepare You for the Pain of a Broken Heart

But the Night is Darkest Just before Dawn

And if You Just Keep Holding On

Hope Will Never Be Lost

Because Hope Will Live Within You and You Alone

Because No One Can Bring You Down

Once Lightning Strikes

You Will Be Strongest In Who You Are

Never Letting Go, Never Looking Back

No Mistakes, No Regrets

The Only Way to Know For Sure

Is to Try

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Youngest son, Jordan, with Amanda, the love of his life, on Easter Sunday, 2011.
Amanda was diagnosed with Non Hodgkins Lymphoma just a couple of weeks before her 21st birthday (March 30,2011). Created on Facebook is the Amanda Pants Angels page, for love , support, encouragement, and sharing the ups and downs with Amanda. Also on Facebook is the Supporting Amanda with Love page for giving support to Amanda, Jordan, Amanda's mother, Laurie, and Amanda's sister, Jen.
A recent petscan revealed there is progress with the treatment Amanda is receiving for this. Using Rituxan, http://www.rituxan.com and chemo, with a plan to take her bone marrow for later transplant options, the doctors in Port Charlotte, Florida are giving us great hope for these kids' future.
Linking arms in love with Amanda on the Facebook pages, has brought together several people across the country who are dealing with cancer in one way or another. Every day you step outside your door, you are likely to encounter someone who either has fought this battle themselves, or has a loved one, or close friend who has. Nearly everyday, for this past 2 months, I have spoken on the phone with someone who is fighting for their life, or with a loved one who is, to beat cancer.
We are all part of one family! It is with love, and a positive spirit we are supporting Amanda and ALL of the Amandas in our lives, to have healthy and restored lives with those they love and are surrounded by. WE WILL NOT LET GO !!!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Ozark Christmas Dazed

The Ozark Sillies Wish Everyone the Best of 2011 comes your way! Watch for articles on topics relative to our lives from contributing writers on the Frumps Magazine blogspot in 2011.

Friday, January 7, 2011


For the 14th Anniversary of the day I became Ehmy ( En Hanced Mommy) ...Granma... I called the lovely child who elevated me to this title... (from Great Mom... to Grandmom) ... Arrielle, to wish her the best day ever. Learning that she would not be doing anything in the early part of the day with her daddy, I expressed my desire to be there to enjoy an adventure all our own.
This not being geographically possible, I set out an agreement between us two. We would each sit down and invent - create an adventure we would take together.. IF we could be together this day. Then we would email the adventure story to each other that evening.
With Arrielle's permission, the following is the result of this fun birthday adventure- not one but 2 adventures we took in our minds together from two different places in this world... January 4, 2011.

Adventure in Florida:

“Hey girlie, happy birthday!” Ehmy said.

“Hey Ehmy. Thank you.” I said.

“Do you remember the time that we went to the Shell Factory?” Ehmy asked.

“Of course I do, didn’t Halley come with us and Bo too?” I reply.

“I think so, and we went to the fish place for lunch, and Bo told you the joke about the scientists who thought that they could make their own people without any help from God, and they had to use some dirt, which was made by God, so in the end, they had to use God’s help.” Ehmy explained.

“Yeah, I remember that. And then he put vinegar on his French fries, which I thought was really weird.” I add.

“Yeah, so I was thinking that we could do that again for your fourteenth birthday. Do you think that that would be okay?” Ehmy asked.

“Of course that would be okay. I’d love to go.” I reply.

“Awesome, then let’s go right now!” she insisted.

“Really? Okay, sure!” I exclaim.

So, there we were, on our way to the Shell Factory. I know, I know, just running off like that without even asking my dad, pretty irresponsible and impulsive, but when we got there, we called him and we told him where we were, and he said that he was fine with it.

“So what do you want to do first?” Ehmy inquired.

“Can we go see the shark’s mouth in the front; I want to take some pictures so we have them.” I reply with another question.

“Whatever you want to do, it’s your birthday,” she tells me.

“Alright then!” I pleasantly reply.

We then proceeded to run amok in this house of shells and miscellaneous objects for the rest of the day. When we got home, we were so tired that we fell asleep on the couch and the rocking chair. I guess we really know how to have fun with just us.

Mississipp Trip'd

Me and Arrielle and the Mighty Mississip Trip

It was a beautiful spring morning when Arrielle and I took off for our unknown adventure. We had packed overnight bags, and a cooler with enough food for 4 days. We figured we would drive away from home two days, taking in as much as we could see and do in that two days, then turn and come back, taking in as much as we could see and do in those two days.

She was as excited about just being on an adventure as I was. We left Bo, My husband, and Jimi, Arrielle’s Dad, back at the house in Arkansas to hang out together while we did our ‘girl’s days’ trip, and sort of on stand-by in case we needed rescued from car trouble , or that kind of emergency. Cell phones and road maps in hand, kisses and hugs and promises of text-ings and phone call for updates, we were off.

We headed southeast where the mighty Mississippi touches Arkansas on one side and Mississippi on the other. Tunica. No, we weren’t going to the Casinos… or maybe we would! With an adult, Arrielle could probably get into some of the entertainment, and …. Well… no better not go in that direction….

Anyway, we were enjoying the sunshine, warm air and thought of such a day being perfect for our trip. This was the first time we had gone anywhere without the guys, like an overnighter, and we gave it no thought, when we made the plan. It was kind of weird though because almost every time I said “ hey Bo! Look at that…”, or she would say, “Dad, when are we…”, we would laugh and then get quiet… and think about those poor guys just hanging out at the house missing out on all this good stuff we were gonna do and see.

By the time we got just one hour’s drive from the house…we were both thinking the same thing, so I just said it. “Hey Arrielle! Would you mind if we went back and got the guys, and maybe just shortened the adventure to one overnighter? Maybe they would like to go with us to spend the night someplace on the Mississippi River, and see all the things we were gonna see, and do all the things we were gonna do, and we could all be together?”

When I saw the big smile on her face, I knew she felt the same way… so that is what we did!

Friday, December 31, 2010

When Frumps go for home improvements and redesigning, money is a large factor. When living on a budget, creativity becomes the currency substitute. This chimney was created using recycled drywall sheet rock, which came from the cut out for the new door entrance you see to the right of the chimney. Cutting the "bricks" into 3 x 8 inches using a razor knife for clean cuts; then using texture mud for the adhesive, allows for the appearance of aged imperfection. After allowing enough "curing" time, this chimney will then be textured with dry wall mud for the rough brick appearance, then painted using multiple colors and tones for a desired finish. Can you BUY these faux bricks already finished? Yes. Do these frumps have the money for home decor, redesigning, home improvement? NO. Do they now have a faux chimney in their living room which adds ambience? YES. How much did it cost $$? Well, they have the bucket of mud for other projects of home improvement, the bricks are recycled dry wall from another home improvement project and they get "oops" paint whenever and wherever they can, in their workshop, so basically, this was a " FRUMP FREEBIE" !!!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

MEET The FRUMPS MAGAZINE

This is the online Magazine for those who can't read, with OR without glasses, the text on those printed versions, which by the way, are supposed to be written and dedicated to the generation of aging adult population, who are or will soon be retired. We will always type in LARGE print for our readers.
Stay tuned for this new and weekly online video version of FRUMPS MAGAZINE !

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Featured Find of the Week

Larry Levings- Resident of Calico Rock, Arkansas, born and raised in Oklahoma,October 26, 1947.
Hard working, kind and good man.
Go to YouTube and search for OkieSongMan and see this moving video.
Larry wrote this song for his Dad who died in 2007, of ALS, to express his love for a man who taught him all he would need to know in life.
Nearly 63 years young, and one fine singer songwriter most people will never even hear.
Larry is now connected through Face Book to the ALS Face Book pages and networking with those who have gone through similar experiences.